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¶ ¶

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       [Chinese announcer
         over intercom]

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      [cell phone vibrates]

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      [Billi] Nai Nai, hi!

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       [Chinese announcer
         over intercom]

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       [Chinese announcer
         over intercom]

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       [Suz] Do you have a
   second to save marine life?

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            Alright.

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         I was gonna say
    something snarky, but...

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    I used to work this job.

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    Ooh, what happened girl?
         You got fired?

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             I quit!

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Because I was
       about to get fired.

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           [laughter]

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       [Chinese announcer
         over intercom]

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               OK.

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            Nai Nai?

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         [loud humming]

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               ¶ ¶

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     [Haiyan] So one day the
     wife goes out of town.

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      And when she returns,
       the husband says...

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     honey, the cat is dead.

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 And she says "How can you tell
    me so abruptly like this?

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        You have to ease
       me into bad news."

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Like honey...

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  the cat, he got on the roof.

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              So...

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             now...

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   a few months later the wife
     goes out of town again.

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    And she returns, and the
    husband greets her again.

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        But this time he
       learned his lesson.

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      And as the wife comes
    through the door he says,

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        "Honey, your mom,
      she got on the roof."

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           [laughter]

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               ¶ ¶

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           [clanging]

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    How did you get in here?

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[traffic din]

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        [phone vibrates]

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            -Nai Nai?
             -Billi!

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          [Mr. Li] Ooh!

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             [sigh]

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               OK.

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      I love you, Nai Nai.

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           I love you.
           I love you.

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        [distant sirens]

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           [car alarm]

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    [Shirley] For what month?

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      For this month, May?

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   And what happened to April?

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         My mom says you
      didn't pay April yet.

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             [sighs]

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    You know if you moved out
right now, we could literally

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        double the rent?

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         [Jian] So what,
       you're broke again?

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      Are you always going
       to live like this?

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    Poor but sexy, I hope so.

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       [Jian] Why you not
        try to save, huh?

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     You should change your
      expensive lifestyle.

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     Mom, if you're going to
     give me shit every time

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      I come home, I'm not
      coming home anymore.

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        Lower your voice.
         Dad's sleeping.

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Sleeping? It's 6:00 PM.
     What's wrong with him?

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            Nothing.
        He's just tired.

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           Is he okay?

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        He's fine, we're
      just busy that's all.

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         Busy with what?
        What's going on?

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   Hao Hao's getting married,
   so we have to go to China.

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        What? Since when?

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       Hasn't he like just
    started dating that girl?

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      You don't need to go.

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  No one's expecting you to go.

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             I mean,
      he's my only cousin.

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Don't you think
       I should be there?

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             OK, OK.

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 Do you think he knocked her up?

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   How many wontons you want?

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              Five.

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    Five? That's not enough.

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       -Make a dozen then.

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           Ten's good.

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               OK.

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       What's wrong, Dad?

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        [Haiyan] Nothing.

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           You and mom
         got in a fight?

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      You've been drinking?

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 Please tell me what's going on.

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       You're scaring me.

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      Something's going on.

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Just tell me what's going on.

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      Your Nai Nai's dying.

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          She has stage
        four lung cancer.

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       The doctor says she
        has three months.

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        Could be faster,
         you never know.

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      -I need to call her.
       -You can't do that.

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     -I need to go see her.
        - Can't do that.

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        She doesn't know.

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     The family thinks it's
     better not to tell her.

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   So you can't say anything.

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       I don't understand.

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She doesn't have a lot of time
  left, she should know, right?

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         There's nothing
          they can do.

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    So everyone decided it's
     better not to tell her.

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       Why is that better?

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   Chinese people have saying,

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        "when people get
        cancer they die."

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      It's not cancer that
   kills them, it's the fear.

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        OK, when were you
    guys gonna tell me this?

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      How could you let me
       find out like this?

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   How should I have told you?
Oh, your grandma's on the roof?

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     What about the wedding?

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    The wedding is an excuse
   so everyone can go see her.

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         We leave first
      thing in the morning.

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          I need to go.

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        [Haiyan] Billie.

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          I need to go.

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     [Jian] Everyone thinks
    it's better if you don't.

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          Look at you.

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  You can't hide your emotions.

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     If you go now, Nai Nai
    will find out right away.

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         [soft sobbing]

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               ¶ ¶

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¶ Happy birthday to you
     Happy birthday to you ¶

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   ¶ Happy birthday dear Tony
     Happy birthday to you ¶

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               ¶ ¶

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       [train approaching]

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      [airplane taking off]

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       [announcements over
      intercom in Chinese]

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    [all talking in Chinese]

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               ¶ ¶

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        [knocks on door]

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             -Billi!
              -Huh?

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    Should have called first.

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      [laughs, slaps butt]

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             Billi!

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      Stop fooling around,
oil is hot.

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       Don't be mad, Mom.

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       Where'd you get the
     money to buy a ticket?

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       Credit card, right?

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         Mom, I'm fine.

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   Look at my face, look at my
  face, look at my face, look.

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         Take to table.

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     [chatter and laughter]

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               ¶ ¶

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            [chatter]

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             -Billi.
             -Hm-mm?

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        [women giggling]

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           [deep sigh]

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           Thank you.

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          [door closes]

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           [ruffling]

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Ha!

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               Yes!

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             Ha! Yes!

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             Ha! Yes!

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             Ha! Yes!

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             Ha! Ha!

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             Ha! Ha!

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00:26:20,947 --> 00:26:22,012
             Ha! Ha!

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             Ha! Ha!

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             Ha. Ha.

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            [laughs]

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             Ha! Ha!

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             Ha! Ha!

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       [speaking Chinese]

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           [laughter]

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            [chatter]

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            [chatter]

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           [Gu Gu] Ma.

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            [chatter]

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             [huffs]

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             [sigh]

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       So what's going on
with the fellowship?

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            Nothing.

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            You still
     haven't heard anything?

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               No.

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00:32:59,678 --> 00:33:01,144
         Well, when are
    they gonna let you know?

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  [annoyed] I don't know, Dad.

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           How are you
        doing with money?

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            I'm fine.

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00:33:08,821 --> 00:33:09,920
            Can you
        afford this trip?

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         Yes, I'm fine.

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         You need help?

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00:33:12,758 --> 00:33:13,924
          No, I'm fine.

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        What is "mei nu"?

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        It means beauty.

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             Hm-mm?

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00:36:22,014 --> 00:36:24,214
[chatter in Chinese]

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             Billi.

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            [laughs]

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               OK.

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        What's that mean?

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00:40:41,973 --> 00:40:44,040
     They say you're a stock
investment and you're gonna make

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       us a lot of money.

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00:40:46,244 --> 00:40:48,278
      Well we can't expect
      that from you, right?

196
00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:49,946
    You are the losing stock.

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00:41:45,770 --> 00:41:48,605
     Mom, that church is not
 representative of all America.

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   We have a lot of problems.

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       Guns. Health care.

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     If you think China that
 good, why don't you move here?

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00:43:21,933 --> 00:43:26,302
¶ ¶

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           [coughing]

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00:44:24,629 --> 00:44:25,828
           [coughing]

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           [coughing]

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               ¶ ¶

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00:45:18,016 --> 00:45:19,816
          [male voice]

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00:45:34,265 --> 00:45:36,265
         -What happened?
         -I don't know.

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00:45:38,770 --> 00:45:42,071
      [shouting in Chinese]

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00:45:42,073 --> 00:45:43,773
               ¶ ¶

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00:45:43,775 --> 00:45:45,575
         [Haiyan] Billi,
       it's the wrong way.

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00:45:46,911 --> 00:45:48,611
    [Billi] This way is fine.

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00:45:48,613 --> 00:45:51,080
     -We have to go around.
       -He says it's fine.

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00:45:52,250 --> 00:45:54,784
      [shouting in Chinese]

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00:45:56,454 --> 00:45:57,487
 [Billi] Which way are we going?

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00:46:01,192 --> 00:46:03,092
        Dad, do you know
       where we're going?

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00:46:03,094 --> 00:46:04,761
-This way.
         -My umbrella...

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00:46:08,967 --> 00:46:10,600
     -Is this the right way?
              -Yes.

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00:46:10,602 --> 00:46:12,034
          Are you sure?

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               ¶ ¶

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00:46:27,919 --> 00:46:29,619
       [Uncle Haibin] Ma?

221
00:47:00,251 --> 00:47:01,517
            Nai Nai.

222
00:48:02,547 --> 00:48:03,946
          [Doctor Song]
       Visit from America?

223
00:48:04,482 --> 00:48:06,215
       I went to school in
     the UK for many years.

224
00:48:06,217 --> 00:48:08,050
        Oh, that's cool.

225
00:48:08,052 --> 00:48:09,085
       Where do you live?

226
00:48:09,087 --> 00:48:10,486
      Uh, I'm in New York.

227
00:48:10,488 --> 00:48:13,556
       New York. I always
    wanted to visit New York.

228
00:48:13,558 --> 00:48:14,891
   It's a very beautiful city.

229
00:48:14,893 --> 00:48:15,925
           Yeah, it's
very beautiful...

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00:48:15,927 --> 00:48:17,193
         Uh, question...

231
00:48:17,195 --> 00:48:18,661
      do you know about my
      grandma's condition?

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00:48:46,024 --> 00:48:46,956
               Ma!

233
00:48:49,427 --> 00:48:51,027
         How bad is she?

234
00:48:51,262 --> 00:48:52,728
 But you can tell me the truth.

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00:48:52,730 --> 00:48:54,630
    [Doctor Song] The cancer
       is quite advanced.

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00:48:54,632 --> 00:48:56,432
 [Billi] Shouldn't we tell her?

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00:48:58,569 --> 00:49:01,103
 [Doctor Song] In her situation,
  most families in China would

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     choose not to tell her.

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00:49:04,075 --> 00:49:07,109
 When my grandmother had cancer,
   my family didn't tell her.

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00:49:09,948 --> 00:49:11,681
     Isn't it wrong to lie?

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00:49:12,583 --> 00:49:14,317
       -I mean if it's for
good, it's not really a lie.

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00:49:14,319 --> 00:49:15,685
            -I mean,
        it's still a lie.

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00:49:16,955 --> 00:49:18,154
        It's a good lie.

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00:49:19,490 --> 00:49:21,223
     How's your grandmother?

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00:49:21,626 --> 00:49:24,026
     She passed away, a few
 months after she was diagnosed.

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00:49:57,362 --> 00:49:58,661
             [cough]

247
00:50:35,066 --> 00:50:37,867
            illegal.
     How do you say illegal?

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               ¶ ¶

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00:51:58,282 --> 00:51:59,648
     [Little Nai Nai] Ellen!

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00:52:05,756 --> 00:52:07,723
        [barks singingly]

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00:52:08,259 --> 00:52:10,292
           [laughter]

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00:52:17,401 --> 00:52:18,667
           [chuckles]

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00:52:56,174 --> 00:52:57,206
          [piano plays]

254
00:53:09,720 --> 00:53:12,888
 [piano plays louder and faster]

255
00:53:35,746 --> 00:53:37,112
       Mom, can we not do
this right now, please?

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00:53:38,983 --> 00:53:39,481
              Mom!

257
00:53:41,085 --> 00:53:41,884
      Can we not right now?

258
00:53:45,590 --> 00:53:46,655
      Just leave him alone.

259
00:53:54,031 --> 00:53:55,598
          [lock beeps]

260
00:53:59,837 --> 00:54:01,737
       Nai Nai should not
   be organizing this wedding.

261
00:54:02,773 --> 00:54:04,573
        If she enjoys it
    then just let her do it.

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00:54:05,376 --> 00:54:06,742
           She's sick.

263
00:54:07,211 --> 00:54:09,044
      She should be resting
        or in a hospital.

264
00:54:09,046 --> 00:54:11,046
       Not stressing about
         a fake wedding.

265
00:54:11,048 --> 00:54:12,581
        You really don't
       know your Nai Nai.

266
00:54:12,583 --> 00:54:15,551
       You know she enjoys
    bossing everyone around.

267
00:54:15,553 --> 00:54:17,453
Makes her feel important.

268
00:54:18,689 --> 00:54:20,089
   Makes her feel in control.

269
00:54:20,091 --> 00:54:21,757
              -Mom.
           -It's true!

270
00:54:21,759 --> 00:54:24,526
     That's why she hated to
  stay in America in our house.

271
00:54:24,528 --> 00:54:25,861
            You know?

272
00:54:25,863 --> 00:54:27,863
      Because she could not
     tell anyone what to do.

273
00:54:28,299 --> 00:54:30,733
      Whatever I do, never
      good enough for her.

274
00:54:30,735 --> 00:54:33,869
   But she can't say anything
    because it was my house.

275
00:54:33,871 --> 00:54:35,437
           Mom, stop!

276
00:54:35,439 --> 00:54:37,906
      What? What did I say?

277
00:54:37,908 --> 00:54:40,142
   You have always had issues
    with her, but right now--

278
00:54:40,144 --> 00:54:42,111
Oh, I don't have
       a problem with her.

279
00:54:42,113 --> 00:54:43,445
       She's the one that
     have a problem with me.

280
00:54:43,447 --> 00:54:44,546
          She's dying.

281
00:54:44,548 --> 00:54:45,781
         Can't you be a
     little more sensitive?

282
00:54:45,783 --> 00:54:46,882
     What you want from me?

283
00:54:46,884 --> 00:54:48,484
            To scream
        and cry like you?

284
00:54:55,059 --> 00:54:57,793
     You know when my father
   died, I was also very sad.

285
00:54:57,795 --> 00:54:59,895
    But I don't act like you.

286
00:55:01,899 --> 00:55:04,233
        When I went back
    to China for the funeral,

287
00:55:04,235 --> 00:55:06,101
   everybody was watching me.

288
00:55:06,103 --> 00:55:08,604
     They were all expecting
me to fall apart.

289
00:55:08,606 --> 00:55:11,173
    And they think if I don't
  cry, I don't love my father.

290
00:55:11,175 --> 00:55:12,241
            No one's
       asking you to cry!

291
00:55:23,954 --> 00:55:26,955
     I don't like, you know,
 put all my emotion on display,

292
00:55:26,957 --> 00:55:28,590
      like I'm in the zoo.

293
00:55:30,494 --> 00:55:33,962
 But in here, if you don't cry,
  you don't put on a show they

294
00:55:33,964 --> 00:55:35,831
         think you don't
        love your family.

295
00:55:35,833 --> 00:55:38,600
   You know in here, they even
 hire some professional criers.

296
00:55:38,602 --> 00:55:40,436
 Just to show how sad they are.

297
00:55:40,438 --> 00:55:43,172
    It's just so ridiculous.
I hate that.

298
00:55:49,680 --> 00:55:52,448
         [loud wailing]

299
00:56:04,995 --> 00:56:07,196
       [wailing continues]

300
00:56:44,869 --> 00:56:46,568
        Pour, just pour.

301
00:56:46,570 --> 00:56:47,936
     Yeah, pour, very good.

302
00:57:27,745 --> 00:57:28,877
           [laughter]

303
00:59:46,884 --> 00:59:49,618
               ¶ ¶

304
01:00:17,081 --> 01:00:21,650
               ¶ ¶

305
01:00:23,821 --> 01:00:25,787
          [Billi] Wait!
     This looks so familiar.

306
01:00:28,492 --> 01:00:30,325
            [Haiyan]
   Do you remember that house?

307
01:00:30,327 --> 01:00:32,094
       You used to love to
       play in the garden.

308
01:00:32,096 --> 01:00:32,861
      [Billi] Where is it?

309
01:00:44,742 --> 01:00:48,143
               ¶ ¶

310
01:01:09,099 --> 01:01:10,999
           [shuffling]

311
01:01:21,111 --> 01:01:24,212
           [coughing]

312
01:01:26,350 --> 01:01:28,283
            [pouring]

313
01:01:31,989 --> 01:01:33,088
[Billi] Dad?

314
01:01:33,791 --> 01:01:34,656
              Huh?

315
01:01:34,658 --> 01:01:35,524
          [door closes]

316
01:01:36,960 --> 01:01:38,293
        Are you smoking?

317
01:01:38,662 --> 01:01:39,561
             Hm-mm.

318
01:01:40,698 --> 01:01:42,164
  I thought you said you quit.

319
01:01:42,166 --> 01:01:43,532
             I did.

320
01:01:44,068 --> 01:01:45,033
             I will.

321
01:01:53,911 --> 01:01:55,477
        Go to bed, Billi.

322
01:02:01,552 --> 01:02:03,318
           What're you
       guys talking about?

323
01:02:03,320 --> 01:02:04,219
            Nothing.

324
01:02:24,074 --> 01:02:25,173
             Billi.

325
01:04:06,143 --> 01:04:07,843
       [speaking Chinese]

326
01:04:11,481 --> 01:04:13,448
              -Mom?
             -Yeah?

327
01:04:13,450 --> 01:04:16,918
     I want to stay in China
 and help take care of Nai Nai.

328
01:04:17,888 --> 01:04:19,321
              What?

329
01:04:19,323 --> 01:04:21,723
   You stay here, to do what?

330
01:04:21,725 --> 01:04:23,758
You can't cook, you can't clean.

331
01:04:33,871 --> 01:04:35,136
    I'll figure it out, Mom.

332
01:04:36,039 --> 01:04:38,206
     So you just stay here.

333
01:04:38,208 --> 01:04:39,341
            And what?

334
01:04:39,343 --> 01:04:40,742
      Wait for her to die?

335
01:04:41,879 --> 01:04:43,511
   What about the fellowship?

336
01:04:43,513 --> 01:04:45,447
   Just forget about it, huh?

337
01:04:46,183 --> 01:04:48,550
      You're 30 years old,
you can just stop your life

338
01:04:48,552 --> 01:04:49,651
         and stay here?

339
01:04:51,255 --> 01:04:54,556
And every day she has to look at
you, with that sad looking face?

340
01:04:55,259 --> 01:04:57,158
         That's not nice
       for anybody, right?

341
01:05:00,364 --> 01:05:03,999
    You know, one of the few
 good memories of my childhood,

342
01:05:04,001 --> 01:05:06,334
were the summers at Nai Nai's.

343
01:05:06,937 --> 01:05:08,370
    They had that garden.

344
01:05:08,372 --> 01:05:10,839
        Ye Ye and I would
       catch dragonflies.

345
01:05:12,876 --> 01:05:14,609
        And then we just
      moved to the States.

346
01:05:14,611 --> 01:05:16,244
    Everything was different.

347
01:05:16,246 --> 01:05:17,779
       Everyone was gone.

348
01:05:17,781 --> 01:05:19,514
And it was just the three of us.

349
01:05:20,517 --> 01:05:21,583
            [sniffs]

350
01:05:25,622 --> 01:05:27,289
       I know it was hard.

351
01:05:27,624 --> 01:05:29,624
     It was hard for us too.

352
01:05:31,795 --> 01:05:35,764
    I wanted to believe that
      it was a good thing,

353
01:05:37,968 --> 01:05:40,302
          but all I saw
     was fear in your eyes.

354
01:05:41,905 --> 01:05:46,141
       And I was confused
and scared constantly

355
01:05:46,143 --> 01:05:48,543
        because you never
   told me what was going on.

356
01:05:53,917 --> 01:05:55,617
      And then Ye Ye died.

357
01:05:56,320 --> 01:05:58,053
         You didn't even
      tell me he was sick.

358
01:05:59,756 --> 01:06:01,656
   So it felt like he just...

359
01:06:01,658 --> 01:06:03,224
       vanished suddenly.

360
01:06:04,394 --> 01:06:06,428
      And you wouldn't even
    let me go to his funeral.

361
01:06:06,430 --> 01:06:07,929
       You were at school.

362
01:06:07,931 --> 01:06:09,898
       We didn't want you
         to miss school.

363
01:06:09,900 --> 01:06:11,633
     We did what we thought
        was best for you.

364
01:06:11,635 --> 01:06:13,501
           But I never
         saw him again.

365
01:06:15,305 --> 01:06:17,305
        And every time I
came back to China, he just

366
01:06:17,307 --> 01:06:18,974
      wasn't there anymore.

367
01:06:21,078 --> 01:06:23,645
         And I come back
       and he's just gone.

368
01:06:25,315 --> 01:06:31,353
The house is gone, A Die's gone,
  our Beijing home is gone and

369
01:06:31,355 --> 01:06:32,988
    soon she'll be gone, too.

370
01:06:47,304 --> 01:06:53,208
               ¶ ¶

371
01:07:49,499 --> 01:07:51,966
         [loud drumming]

372
01:07:56,106 --> 01:07:57,305
             Billi!

373
01:09:30,033 --> 01:09:31,866
      [microphone feedback]

374
01:11:45,769 --> 01:11:48,703
           [applause]

375
01:11:58,815 --> 01:12:00,715
           [applause]

376
01:12:17,801 --> 01:12:19,434
       Does everyone know?

377
01:12:19,436 --> 01:12:21,002
          I think most
       people don't know.

378
01:12:21,538 --> 01:12:23,371
        But I'm not sure.

379
01:12:23,540 --> 01:12:24,772
             Billi?

380
01:12:33,149 --> 01:12:35,049
[speaking Japanese]

381
01:12:44,327 --> 01:12:45,893
       [speaking Japanese]

382
01:12:55,905 --> 01:12:57,071
       [speaking Japanese]

383
01:13:10,987 --> 01:13:13,588
           [applause]

384
01:13:14,924 --> 01:13:17,959
       [music and chatter]

385
01:14:35,572 --> 01:14:36,704
           [laughter]

386
01:15:18,448 --> 01:15:19,413
           Thank you.

387
01:15:54,851 --> 01:15:55,816
           Thank you.

388
01:15:55,818 --> 01:15:57,785
           [applause]

389
01:16:01,558 --> 01:16:02,757
           I'm sorry.

390
01:16:02,759 --> 01:16:04,358
      Sorry, how do you say
      congratulations? Dad?

391
01:16:04,360 --> 01:16:05,359
            Gong xi!

392
01:16:05,361 --> 01:16:07,895
      Gong xi Hao Hao Aiko!
           Thank you.

393
01:16:09,165 --> 01:16:12,233
         ¶ And so I came
          to see her ¶

394
01:16:13,102 --> 01:16:15,670
   ¶ And listen for a while ¶

395
01:16:19,509 --> 01:16:22,977
         ¶ And there he
was this young boy ¶

396
01:16:25,048 --> 01:16:27,949
    ¶ A stranger to my eyes ¶

397
01:16:29,719 --> 01:16:32,453
         ¶ Strumming my
     pain with his fingers ¶

398
01:16:34,457 --> 01:16:37,325
          ¶ Singing my
      life with his words ¶

399
01:16:40,129 --> 01:16:43,164
            [singing]

400
01:18:04,013 --> 01:18:05,279
       [singing haltingly]

401
01:18:21,030 --> 01:18:22,196
           [chuckles]

402
01:18:22,198 --> 01:18:25,099
          [dance music]

403
01:18:30,973 --> 01:18:33,040
       [speaking Chinese]

404
01:19:31,300 --> 01:19:34,168
       [operatic singing]

405
01:19:57,393 --> 01:20:00,728
       [operatic singing]

406
01:20:28,357 --> 01:20:33,060
       [operatic singing]

407
01:21:15,004 --> 01:21:18,939
            [sobbing]

408
01:22:11,727 --> 01:22:12,526
         [shutter click]

409
01:22:22,271 --> 01:22:23,304
          [door closes]

410
01:22:23,306 --> 01:22:27,207
               ¶ ¶

411
01:24:16,852 --> 01:24:20,821
               ¶ ¶

412
01:26:00,256 --> 01:26:01,722
[sigh]

413
01:27:36,252 --> 01:27:37,351
        [knocks on door]

414
01:27:48,397 --> 01:27:50,264
             [sigh]

415
01:29:18,854 --> 01:29:22,122
               ¶ ¶

416
01:29:25,561 --> 01:29:28,362
 ¶ O gather up the brokenness ¶

417
01:29:28,364 --> 01:29:31,465
   ¶ And bring it to me now ¶

418
01:29:31,467 --> 01:29:35,035
         ¶ The fragrance
       of those promises ¶

419
01:29:35,037 --> 01:29:37,304
           ¶ You never
         dared to vow ¶

420
01:29:38,741 --> 01:29:41,074
¶ The splinters that you carry ¶

421
01:29:42,478 --> 01:29:45,412
           ¶ The cross
        you left behind ¶

422
01:29:45,414 --> 01:29:49,216
  ¶ Come healing of the body ¶

423
01:29:49,218 --> 01:29:51,818
  ¶ Come healing of the mind ¶

424
01:29:52,988 --> 01:29:56,223
          ¶ And let the
        heavens hear it ¶

425
01:29:56,225 --> 01:29:59,126
    ¶ The penitential hymn ¶

426
01:29:59,695 --> 01:30:02,662
¶ Come healing
         of the spirit ¶

427
01:30:03,399 --> 01:30:05,799
  ¶ Come healing of the limb ¶

428
01:30:08,103 --> 01:30:11,004
  ¶ Behold the gates of mercy ¶

429
01:30:12,274 --> 01:30:14,441
     ¶ In arbitrary space ¶

430
01:30:15,677 --> 01:30:18,412
  ¶ And none of us deserving ¶

431
01:30:19,348 --> 01:30:22,115
  ¶ The cruelty or the grace ¶

432
01:30:23,018 --> 01:30:26,019
    ¶ O solitude of longing ¶

433
01:30:26,288 --> 01:30:29,523
¶ Where love has been confined ¶

434
01:30:29,525 --> 01:30:33,093
  ¶ Come healing of the body ¶

435
01:30:33,095 --> 01:30:35,829
  ¶ Come healing of the mind ¶

436
01:30:37,132 --> 01:30:40,467
           ¶ O see the
       darkness yielding ¶

437
01:30:40,469 --> 01:30:43,437
  ¶ That tore the light apart ¶

438
01:30:43,439 --> 01:30:47,307
         ¶ Come healing
         of the reason ¶

439
01:30:47,309 --> 01:30:49,776
¶ Come healing of the heart ¶

440
01:30:52,815 --> 01:30:55,715
 ¶ O troubled dust concealing ¶

441
01:30:56,652 --> 01:30:59,186
      ¶ An undivided love ¶

442
01:30:59,922 --> 01:31:02,889
           ¶ The heart
      beneath is teaching ¶

443
01:31:02,891 --> 01:31:06,660
            ¶ To the
      broken heart above ¶

444
01:31:06,662 --> 01:31:10,096
          ¶ And let the
        heavens hear it ¶

445
01:31:10,098 --> 01:31:12,866
    ¶ The penitential hymn ¶

446
01:31:13,435 --> 01:31:16,470
         ¶ Come healing
         of the spirit ¶

447
01:31:17,306 --> 01:31:19,639
  ¶ Come healing of the limb ¶

448
01:31:21,076 --> 01:31:23,477
          ¶ Oh let the
        heavens hear it ¶

449
01:31:24,279 --> 01:31:27,214
    ¶ The penitential hymn ¶

450
01:31:27,916 --> 01:31:30,650
         ¶ Come healing
         of the spirit ¶

451
01:31:31,587 --> 01:31:34,087
¶ Come healing of the limb ¶

452
01:31:53,175 --> 01:31:55,342
        [train clanging]

453
01:32:32,147 --> 01:32:33,313
              Ha!!

454
01:32:35,584 --> 01:32:36,883
              Ha!!

455
01:32:36,885 --> 01:32:38,952
       [birds fluttering]

456
01:32:53,869 --> 01:32:55,835
         Ha! Ho! Ha! Ho!

457
01:32:57,539 --> 01:32:59,472
        [speaks Chinese]

458
01:33:00,742 --> 01:33:03,476
            [laughs]

459
01:33:04,012 --> 01:33:06,746
        [speaks Chinese]

460
01:33:15,023 --> 01:33:19,192
               ¶ ¶